Nourishment

Humans have several innate needs to survive. Besides physical nourishment, humans need psychological support. A part of this support is a need for purpose, particularly something to motivate their focus. Besides purpose, or perhaps along with it is a need for some level of appreciation. When appreciation crumbles, bullying finds a ripe field in which to blossom. Some level of appreciation does not mean complete acceptance of all words or actions, but sincere concern for the source. When another person realizes we are open to considering their struggles, then when we attempt to understand and appreciate their challenges; they will likely allow us to help them find better solutions to those situations with which they struggle. A relationship has elements of: understanding, a level of acceptance, a level of disagreement, overall concern for the individual, and willingness to help the person and ourselves. The prime example of this is God. For those who believe in Him and recognize a need for His help, He accepts whatever they have become and provides the Holy Spirit to help them overcome the past. "Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom." 2CO 3:17